This morning I had something occur which is frustrating – because I couldn’t do much about it.
A lady is in hospital in pain and is all crumpled inside
Her chance of having children is now gone
She was asking for some love, some conversation from the depths of her blog
Yet her comments weren’t on
And there is no information on her website as to how I might send her some
She is obviously someone who loves God, has her faith and will be supported by that
But she would like some human angels to send her some love too
We all need that sometimes – luckily I’ve got a loving support group
Not everyone does when they fall in a hole
They’re not there forever – maybe only a day, an hour
But here is the thing
When you ask for help
You have to “turn your comments on”
Yes I’m using this term metaphorically now because that is the lesson that came to me..
In order to receive – you must ensure you are first open to receive it
Also on a purely practical point
I’ve had the comments “turned off” thing happen to me and someone let me know through another way – it’s a settings thing on your post – sometimes for whatever reason it skips to closed comments – ensure it is open or you have other ways such as an email or something on your website, (twitter handle, insta) for others to contact you.
Some people leave comments off on purpose and that is fine too.
Okay so my entire purpose is to send some love to this lady who is probably sound asleep and fine now but..
Back to you now fellow female friend blogger – it’s a tough day – my sons are everything to me – I can’t imagine not having them in my life but perhaps your path is different – kids take a lot of time and energy, maybe you are intended to use all that time and energy on something else.
Words aren’t a lot of use in this situation and I’m probably using the wrong ones so – here is some love and a virtual hug – I hope you can feel it – I am so sincerely sending it to you.
Here is her blog post http://halaluyahuah.com/2020/02/05/well-its-done/ it takes two seconds to send some sunshine – a smile, a heart or a like to someone – even if they haven’t got their comments on or (in the real world) don’t look like they want conversation.
27 thoughts on “Turn your comments on if you want conversation!”
How do I? I’m sorry! Ha I’m new to this!
Yay!! Don’t be sorry glad to have got a message through and hope you’re feeling a bit better. I’m guessing your on your phone? That’s why you can’t see – hang on I will have to remember how to do it – think it is under privacy settings – back in a mo
I think I did it?. Haha
Cool – it’s under settings, discussion, make sure your comments are on and all the settings further down are right. Excellent – not sure if that fixes things for the previous post but it will for any from now on. Phew okay well hope you’re feeling better, terrible day. If you get bored in hospital or would like to chat send me an email at firstname.lastname@example.org 🌷🌷🌷💕😊
I love that you care so much to reach someone with love and support. On the deeper level of turn your comments on, I feel this big time. Sometimes we just shut ourselves off from hearing others thoughts and opinions. When we turn off the comments we lose the ability to learn and grow. I love the double meaning in this post!
Thanks Jody but it only came to me as I was writing it. Nice lesson for my morning 💕
I hope that you’re doing better physically and mentally. Sending prayers, may God life your spirits. 💐 🌎✌🏻❤️
Thanks for sharing this. I went over to her post and left a ‘like’.
I like your analogy of leaving your comments on in life if you want help.
Hey lovely – hope you’re having a better time of it now – let us know how you’re going tomorrow and update your blog 🌷💕
Hi Nicola thanks for stopping by I appreciate it and yes we have to try and remain open to help unfortunately a key factor in a lot of mental disease is a tendency to self isolate.
Love the metaphorical meaning: “In order to receive – you must ensure you are first open to receive it.” There was a time when I struggled with this.
Me too Rosaliene. It really hit me as I was writing – there’s a reason everything happens – maybe I was supposed to learn that very simple lesson this morning.
Your writing is very beautiful! Great post!
Thanks Charity, very kind of you thanks for stopping by.
There’s so much love and empathy in your writing. I adore it!!
Thanks Cherry that’s a lovely thing to hear 💕🌷
Many don’t know that you can turn comments off or on for individual posts. Somehow, It wasn’t me, a recent post of mine had the comments turned off, and I had to go into the old WP administrator to turn them on. I still use the old WP administrator on occasion. Seems like the newer versions are more limited in what you can do.
I’ve had the same thing happen to me. I blog a lot from my phone – luckily another blogger let me know my comments were off – I had to go back to the lap top to fix it. Some people like their comments turned off on purpose but most people like to have a chat so I always let people know.
I blog from an iPad a lot, and have had to go to my laptop to fix something a few times. 😕
Intercessory Prayer is needed for everyone. We all have sickness and trouble in our lives. Sincerity and true Faith in the Lord is the key to overcome the sin, pain and sorrows in this world and Love for Christ Jesus. Thanks for your support.
LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS!
Hahah! You’re back! Awesome I was about to send a damn possee out to find you x
Yes, I am back 🙂 It’s been an odd week. Just needed a little cocoon time….a quick metamorphosis xxxx
Love your picture and your kind thoughts regarding someone else. Blessings to you and thanks for your support!
It’s always a pleasure to write and share the love.